Whew! There are cobwebs everywhere on my blog! HA! I decided it was time I updated with something that is on my heart. Not everything in life works out like we planned because no matter how careful we are to plan…the unexpected always happens! What do you do in those unexpected moments? I believe when we encounter things outside of our control that it exposes who we really are and what is REALLY on the inside of us. We are all control freaks. We love to try and predict who is going to win the Superbowl (Packers right?) and we try to predict who the next president will be (Lord help us!). We gather as much information as we can and then when we still long for control…ah-hem…I said when we still long for control….AH-HEM!!! I SAID when we still long for control we do the MOST dangerous thing that ANYONE can do…we venture into the land of…”assumption”. Oh when things move beyond our realm of control we try to maintain a sense of control by assuming and predicting what will happen next. Oh the big problem with that is we convince ourselves of an outcome and that often determines our attitude towards whatever it is we are facing. Oh I am preachin better than yall are amen’in out there in blog-land!
Your attitude is key with whatever you are facing in life right now! I am not saying that you have to be super optimistic and be looking for double-rainbows and run barefoot through the grassy fields BUT your attitude is key. Your attitude towards your circumstance often reveals who you are really trusting. We try to pull out our crystal ball and predict what is going to happen based on our assumptions and the facts that we see around us. Let me give you two little nuggets of advice here: 1. YOU CANNOT CONTROL PEOPLE! People are crazy! Sometimes they defy logic and all sound reason and that is ok because if you are reading this that means you are “people” too! We are all wildcards and bring out the most erratic, unpredictable things from time to time that will throw off even the most well-planned and well thought out person. 2. YOU CANNOT CONTROL GOD! Ohhhhhh…hello!?!?! We want God and people to both do what we want when we want and how we want…with a cherry on top. And let me tell you something chief…it doesnt always work out that way…what are you going to do then? Give up? Get mad? Feel sorry for yourself? Play the victim? What is in you the most is going to come out at that moment. Jesus said that, “Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.” I basically take that to mean…whatever is in you the most…will eventually come out!
What SHOULD our attitude be whenever things get out of our control? Our attitude must be shaped by the Word of God. That means whenever somebody hurts or offends you, you have to respond with the Word. Naturally we want to slap em on the head and spread lies about them and hurt them too. The Word of God says to turn the other cheek. Doesnt seem fair does it? You see, when you walk Kingdom minded, you understand that you are a representative of Jesus here in the earth. You understand that it is more important for them to see Christ in you than for you to feel better for a second because you retaliated. It changes your attitude! You see, it doesnt mean I am weak but it means…I let God fight my battles when I respond with the Word. When you refuse to speak gossip, when you refuse to let unforgiveness rule your life, when you choose to walk in the Word of Life…everything changes. You see, we dont just become hopeless people who look through rose-colored glasses but we become men and women of faith that see the other side of the mountain and trust that God is faithful.
Folks, if I can deposit anything in you through this blog today, its that God is faithful and worthy of our trust. So clear out the cobwebs, brush of the dust and get into His Word today…I promise you when the pressure is on…if you have been filling your heart with His Word…faith, truth and love will come out!
You can make it through whatever you are facing right now. Not because you are so great but because the one that is in you is. He is on your side today and He is your ever present help in any trouble. The security that trusting in God brings, is better than any form of control or manipulation that I try to use on others or situations.
Release control today! Take your hands off of it and get your hands on His Word! There you will find freedom, wisdom, direction and peace.
Walk in victory!
-PD
